Anyone who has dipped a toe into the lifestyle, home, or minimalist blogosphere over the past several years probably knows the William Morris quote I'm alluding to in the title of this post:
"Have nothing in your houses that you do not know to be useful, or believe to be beautiful."
It occurred to me that much of the time, when we invoke these words it is in one of two contexts: I got rid of a bunch of stuff that was not beautiful or useful; or, look at the new thing I bought (or made), isn't it beautiful. And both of those types of posts have their place. (In particular, you know I am a huge sucker for a good decluttering Cinderella story.)
But we don't talk much about the objects that we do decide to keep in our houses, how they might become more beautiful with use, and why certain things stand the test of time.
So this series aims to correct that balance a little bit: I'll choose an object from my home that passes the William Morris Test, and talk about why. Some of these items might be mostly useful, others mostly beautiful, and a few might even have that elusive, near-perfect fusion of both qualities. Some items might be things you could buy at a store, some will be old and not available anymore, and others will be entirely one-of-a-kind. But this isn't about recommending a product.
Instead, it's about giving worthy objects a moment in the spotlight. I hope this exercise will help me appreciate the things in my home a little bit better, as well as understand what qualities make an item likely to become beloved. Maybe you're interested in considering objects in this way too?
Objects: Salt and pepper mills
Provenance: Purchased from Mrs. Cooks, Seattle, WA
Date acquired: August 2013
Maker: William Bounds, Ltd., USA
Materials: Wood, silver-tone metal, ceramic blades
Summary: I bought these matching salt and pepper mills two years ago as an anniversary present for my husband. The materials they are made of don't have anything to do with the prescribed gifts for the ninth anniversary (which are willow or pottery in the traditional system, and leather in the modern), but our kitchen was in need of a pepper grinder of better quality, and less wastefulness, than those grocery store plastic bottles of peppercorns with a built-in grinder we'd been using up until then. I picked these partly because the barrels are made of unfinished wood; I liked the idea that they might develop a patina over many years of handling and use. Maybe I will feel differently when I am older, but right now I think an anniversary present should be more about celebrating a relationship's future than its past. (And along anniversary-gift lines, the heart-shaped cut-out in each handle is a nice touch, too.)
The two mills look identical except that the knob at the top of the pepper version is silver, while that on the salt version has a dot of white enamel. Once you've noticed this you're unlikely to mix up the mills and put pepper where you wanted salt or vice versa, but the subtlety of this marking makes them a pleasingly matched set. I like the authenticity of their materials and their modest size: they fit nicely in the hand, and are easy even for a child to manipulate (admittedly, the salt mill has been tested more rigorously than the pepper mill in this regard).
And while it's mainly the meaning of these objects -- or my idea of their future meaning -- that makes them special to me, they are undeniably useful as well. The cranks turn easily and and efficiently, though you can feel a pleasing crunch as the blades slice into a peppercorn or a salt crystal. The blades have never yet gotten gummed up or stuck, and the simple, straightforward mechanism makes me confident that they will continue working for a long time to come. And now again I think we might be back to metaphor.
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The salt and pepper mills are beautiful - they're works of art, they're useful, AND they're filled with meaning! What a lovely gift to give your husband on your anniversary! (And the metaphorical last paragraph put a smile on my face and makes me very happy for you - I love hearing about good, strong marriages that stand the test of time :) ).
As you know, I think a lot about "stuff", and I'm a total sucker for any object that manages to fulfill all three of the craftsmanship/usefulness/meaningfulness criteria. I completely agree with you when you say, "But we don't talk much about the objects that we do decide to keep in our houses, how they might become more beautiful with use, and why certain things stand the test of time"; that IS precisely the piece that's missing in all the talk about de-cluttering and William Morris. It also ties in perfectly with the aim of making a home gezellig. Cooking with these, vs cooking with the acrylic disposable pepper mill? I'm willing to bet there's just that little extra feeling of pleasure as you work - the thoughts that might go through your mind, consciously or even subconsciously - which can have a powerful effect. There seems to be a lot of people out there (on the internet, that is) who like to trivialize "stuff"; to say that "stuff is just stuff"; but I think stuff can be very powerful, capable of weighing you down or lifting you up. And, I'm going to go out on a limb and say that if we all paid more attention to the stuff we choose to keep --- if we took more care in choosing objects in the first place --- we might not all be in the state we're in (houses filled with disposable crap shipped from China that we regularly rotate (store to house to Goodwill or dump, rinse and repeat...), coupled with all the feelings that go along with being mired in this endless cycle. I'm so looking forward to other posts in this series! (No pressure intended, though!)
I think you're right -- the pleasure of using/interacting with well-designed and/or meaningful objects is a big part of the experience of gezellig. I hadn't thought about that aspect! And a resounding yes to the idea that "stuff is just stuff" leaves something out -- and I share your suspicion that thinking more about stuff is going to be key to breaking that buy-store-purge-buy cycle (a cycle that, let's face it, I myself am still wrapped up in).Delete
I don't think I have ever commented before but this post reminds me of why I suscribed to your blog: great writing, thank you. Beauty melded with function is the best quality of any object, in my opinion, and these fulfill the criteria perfectly; the hearts in the handles being a marvellous added bonus for the anniverary gift aspect.ReplyDelete
Thanks so much for commenting, Ursula! I'm so glad to know that you are reading, and really appreciate your thumbs-up to this post. I'll work on writing more in this vein for sure.Delete
I hope you make this a regular feature--I really enjoyed this post. I think the whole Kondo thing might be about people liking the idea of choosing things they love more than getting rid of what they don't. And to extend your metaphor even a bit further--all relationships need seasoning, right? :-)ReplyDelete
Thanks, Rita. I definitely have some other objects lined up for this series (though of course the question is always when I will get to writing them up). I think you're right about the Kondo thing -- to me, "choose what to keep, not what to get rid of" puts things in a whole new light. And yes, I like your extension of the salt metaphor, you're quite right about seasoning. I guess our container of smoked paprika, though much more utilitarian-looking, is just as important. Oo la la!Delete